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Defying gravity or dragging along? My take on the ‘Wicked’ movie

Seeing the “Wicked” movie on a “pre-screening” night marked a significant step in my ongoing quest to understand this beloved story.

As someone who treasures “The Wizard of Oz,” I’ve always struggled with the narrative of “Wicked.”

While I’ve never seen the stage show live, I’ve read the book and watched a couple of bootleg videos of the Broadway production.

Each time, I found myself lost in the sprawling first act, overwhelmed by how much “Wicked” tries to pack into its story.

The movie helped bring some clarity.

Finally, I could better grasp the narrative threads tying Elphaba’s and Glinda’s journeys together.

The film’s visual grandeur and talented cast certainly helped.

Cynthia Erivo’s Elphaba is magnificent, capturing both vulnerability and power, while Jonathan Bailey’s Fiyero shines with charm and intrigue.

Ariana Grande, as Glinda, perfectly embodies the character’s bubbly exterior and hidden depth.

Adding to the film’s nostalgic appeal, original Broadway stars Idina Menzel and Kristin Chenoweth make brief appearances in the movie.

While their roles are small, their presence is a touching nod to fans of the stage show who have cherished their iconic portrayals of Elphaba and Glinda.

Seeing them included felt like a heartfelt acknowledgment of the legacy they created and a passing of the torch of sorts to Erivo and Grande, who now carry the story forward for a new generation of “Wicked” enthusiasts.

Despite its strengths, the movie’s pacing remains an issue.

At 2 hours and 40 minutes, “Wicked: Part One” (which is what this should be called in marketing efforts of the film) is longer than the entire Broadway production (2 hours and 30 minutes not counting the intermission), yet it tells only half the story.

This choice feels excessive, as the first part of the film drags in places, making me question why the story needed to be split into two movies.

One aspect where the movie excels is capturing the emotional core of “Wicked.”

At its heart, the story explores themes of friendship, identity and finding one’s voice in a world that silences those who are different.

This resonates deeply in today’s society, where marginalized groups often fight to be heard and valued.

The plight of the animals in “Wicked”—stripped of their ability to speak and ostracized by society—mirrors the experiences of those who face systemic oppression.

The story challenges viewers to question their complicity and consider the changes needed to create a more equitable world, especially for those whose struggles are too often ignored by the privileged.

That said, my longstanding issues with “Wicked” remain.

While many view it as enriching and expanding “The Wizard of Oz,” I’ve always felt it tries to undo the original’s magic.

The backstory for iconic characters like the Tin Man and Scarecrow feels forced, as though it diminishes the wonder of “The Wizard of Oz” rather than complementing it.

Ultimately, my journey with “Wicked” continues.

The movie offered a deeper understanding of the story but didn’t fully resolve my ambivalence.

Perhaps “Wicked: Part Two” will hold the answers—or perhaps “Wicked” is simply a story I’ll always admire from a distance, even if it doesn’t fully click for me.

Finding strength in vulnerability and connection

World Mental Health Day is observed on Oct. 10, serving as a reminder of the importance of mental health awareness and the necessity of seeking help for mental health issues. Addressing these challenges can lead to improved well-being, enhanced coping strategies and a better quality of life for everyone.

Acknowledging our mental health struggles is a crucial step in fostering well-being. It’s all too easy to downplay our emotions, convincing ourselves that “someone else has it worse” or that our struggles are insignificant. However, doing so invalidates our own feelings and experiences. Pain is personal; just because others may be going through difficult times doesn’t make what we experience any less real or worthy of attention. We all deserve to feel what we feel, and recognizing that our emotions are valid is essential to our healing process.

Surrounding ourselves with people who genuinely show up for us during these difficult moments is equally important. Genuine friends and loved ones provide the support system we need when things feel overwhelming. They offer understanding, compassion and a much-needed listening ear. These are the people who remind us that we’re not alone, who don’t just offer words of comfort but stand by us when we need it most. Relationships like these can act as a lifeline when we’re struggling, allowing us to feel seen, supported and cared for.

In addition to seeking support from friends and others, pursuing medical help or counseling is a healthy and brave way to address mental health challenges. Therapy or medical guidance can provide the tools, strategies and perspectives needed to manage our mental health effectively. It creates the space for us to process our emotions in a constructive way, enabling us to develop coping mechanisms that work for us. Seeking help is not a sign of weakness; rather, it’s a powerful step toward healing and growth.

We all experience hard times, and while it’s perfectly OK to not feel OK, what’s most important is that we give ourselves permission to seek help, to be vulnerable, and to acknowledge our feelings without dismissing them. Recognizing that we deserve care — whether through friendship, therapy, or a combination of both — is vital. Our mental health matters, and prioritizing it can lead us toward a more fulfilling life.

On this World Mental Health Day, and every day, let’s take a moment to:

  • Reflect on our mental health
  • Reach out to someone who may need support
  • Remind ourselves that we are not alone in our struggles

Whether you seek help through professional resources, open conversations with friends, or simply taking time for self-care, remember that every step taken toward addressing mental health is a step toward a brighter, healthier future. Let’s commit to breaking the stigma surrounding mental health and encourage open dialogues that foster understanding, compassion, and support for one another.

Why good relationships require effort

In a world where instant gratification reigns supreme and swipe-left decisions are made in seconds, it’s easy to lose sight of the value of investing time and energy into relationships. Whether it’s a friendship, romantic partnership or professional connection, relationships thrive on the principle of investment. Like any other meaningful endeavor, they require attention, patience and a willingness to show up consistently and with intent.

But why should we invest in relationships, and what’s the return on this investment? I think about this so often, and try to read about other’s experiences and journeys.

Relationships are built, not found

A common misconception is that strong relationships — whether friendships or romances — are found rather than built. We often idolize the idea of “instant connections” and “finding your person.” (As much as I’ve learned not to do this, I still do this at times.)

While chemistry or shared values can create a strong foundation, even the most promising of relationships need effort to truly flourish. The reality is that strong bonds are created over time, through shared experiences, mutual support and — most importantly — a conscious choice to nurture that connection.

When we invest in a relationship, we’re laying bricks of trust, understanding and shared meaning. This foundation becomes the bedrock of a resilient relationship, capable of dealing with conflicts, misunderstandings and challenges. Without that investment, relationships remain surface-level, fragile and prone to dissolve at the first sign of difficulty.

Growth requires vulnerability and commitment

Investing in a relationship requires vulnerability (something I’m not good at) — a willingness to open up, share our thoughts, fears and dreams. It also requires commitment. In friendships, that might mean consistently checking in on someone or being there when they need support. In romantic relationships, it involves showing up for your partner not just when it’s convenient but especially when it’s not.

Without this level of engagement, relationships can easily become transactional — existing only for convenience or superficial interaction. By committing time and emotional energy, we show that we value the other person and are willing to be a part of their growth journey. And in turn, we grow as individuals by learning from them.

The impact of deep, invested relationships

The benefits of investing in relationships are profound. People with strong, meaningful connections experience greater life satisfaction, better emotional well-being and even physical health benefits. When you invest in relationships, you’re creating a network of support, love and wisdom that can uplift you in moments of need.

Take friendship as an example. When you invest in a friend, you become part of their life in a way that enriches both of you. You celebrate each other’s successes, mourn each other’s losses and provide a safe space to express yourselves. This is more than just a casual acquaintance — it’s a relationship where both parties can truly rely on each other.

It’s not about keeping score

One of the challenges people face when investing in relationships is the fear of imbalance. No one wants to feel like they’re putting in all the work. But here’s the truth: Investing in a relationship isn’t about keeping score. Healthy relationships have an ebb and flow, where at times one person might need more support or attention than the other.

By focusing on the bigger picture, and understanding that relationships are dynamic, we realize that the return on investment is often intangible. It’s in the moments of laughter, shared companionship and mutual growth.

The courage to invest

It can be scary to invest in people. There’s always a risk of disappointment, conflict or the possibility that the relationship may not evolve as you hoped. But that risk is a part of life. The real loss is in holding back — choosing not to invest because of the fear of failure or rejection.

Great relationships require courage. They require you to step out of your comfort zone and trust that the other person values the relationship as much as you do. They require patience, as growth often happens in small, almost imperceptible ways. And they require consistency — because deep connections aren’t built overnight.

The reward of meaningful relationships

The relationships we invest in shape who we are. When we give of ourselves, we learn not just about the other person, but about our own capacity for love, empathy and connection. The real reward is not just the relationship itself but the person we become through the process.

In a world that encourages quick fixes and short-term thinking, the willingness to invest in relationships is an act of resistance. It’s a choice to prioritize depth over convenience and meaning over fleeting interactions.

So, whether it’s a friendship, working relationship, family member or romantic connection, don’t be afraid to invest. You’ll find that the time, energy and love you put into the relationship will come back to you in ways far beyond what you ever expected.

Costco’s move to remove books sparks concerns for publishers

Costco plans to halt regular book sales across its U.S. stores from January 2025, opting to sell them solely during the holiday season, The New York Times reported, citing four publishing executives who asked to remain anonymous.

The decision, apparently driven by labor concerns, could impact publishers amidst stagnant print sales and challenges in reaching online customers.

Costco had not yet commented publicly on the matter, as of June 6.

The book publishing industry has experienced significant transformations over the last several years as consumer behaviors change.

The rise of e-books and audiobooks has revolutionized the industry, providing readers with more accessible and convenient options.

Platforms like Amazon’s Kindle and Audible have dominated the market, while traditional print sales have faced stagnation.

Advances in self-publishing platforms — such as Amazon’s Kindle Direct Publishing — have democratized the industry, allowing authors to bypass traditional publishing houses. This shift has empowered writers but also increased competition.

Major publishing houses have undergone mergers and acquisitions to consolidate resources and expand their market presence. Notable mergers include Penguin and Random House in 2013, forming the world’s largest trade book publisher.

Traditional brick-and-mortar bookstores have struggled, with several notable closures, partly due to the rise of e-commerce giants like Amazon.

However, independent bookstores have seen a resurgence, emphasizing community engagement and personalized experiences.

The COVID-19 pandemic initially disrupted the industry, causing delays and logistical challenges. But it also spurred a rise in reading, particularly in digital formats, as people sought entertainment and escape.

5 ways allies can support LGBTQ family, friends

Supporting LGBTQ people is essential for fostering inclusivity, equality and understanding — and it’s just the right thing to do.

Here are five impactful ways allies can step up and make a difference:

1. Educate yourself

As an ally, it’s crucial to invest time in understanding LGBTQ history, issues, and terminology. This includes learning about different identities and experiences within the community. By becoming knowledgeable, you can challenge misconceptions, provide accurate information, and show genuine respect for LGBTQ individuals’ experiences. This education not only helps you become a better ally but also fosters a more inclusive environment where everyone feels valued and understood.

2. Speak out against discrimination

Discrimination can take many forms, from subtle comments to overt actions. Allies should actively confront and condemn homophobic, transphobic, and discriminatory remarks or behaviors. This involves challenging offensive jokes, biased comments, or unfair treatment in various settings. By speaking out, you help create a culture of accountability and support, making it clear that discrimination is unacceptable. Your voice can be powerful in driving change and fostering respect.

3. Support LGBTQ rights

Advocacy plays a crucial role in advancing LGBTQ rights. Allies can participate by voting for inclusive policies, supporting legislative efforts, and joining campaigns that promote equality. Additionally, supporting LGBTQ organizations through donations or volunteer work helps sustain crucial services and initiatives aimed at improving the community’s well-being. By standing up for LGBTQ rights, you help create a society where everyone is treated equally under the law.

4. Create inclusive spaces

Making every environment inclusive and welcoming for LGBTQ people is essential. This involves implementing and promoting policies that ensure safety and respect, using inclusive language, and celebrating LGBTQ identities. Whether in workplaces, schools, or social settings, inclusive practices help LGBTQ individuals feel seen, valued, and safe. As an ally, your efforts to create inclusive spaces can significantly impact the lives of those around you.

5. Listen and offer support

Being an active, empathetic listener is one of the most important ways to support LGBTQ individuals. Offer a non-judgmental space for them to share their experiences and feelings. Providing emotional support, affirming their identities, and respecting their confidentiality fosters trust and demonstrates genuine allyship. By simply listening and offering your support, you contribute to their sense of acceptance and belonging.