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Pride was born from resistance. That fight is far from over.

I was reminded Saturday that Pride isn’t just a party.

Pride is a reminder — of progress made and of the work that’s still very much unfinished.

While at the Pride event in Erie, Pennsylvania, I noticed that at least two boats at a marina next door had flags emblazoned with, “Trump won.”

Those flags and the meaning behind them are not patriotism.

Those flags are not about humanity.

Those flags aren’t about peace or love.

Those flags do stand for harm and hurt.

Those flags do represent evil.

While at the Pride event, I saw kindness abound.

I saw people sharing positive exchanges with strangers.

I saw people supporting their LGBTQ kids, family members, friends, colleagues.

I saw people who just want to exist without threats from Republicans.

I saw people who just want to exist without being told they don’t belong.

I saw people who just want to exist without their life being considered political.

I saw people who just want to stay alive.

Republicans have made it very clear: their agenda includes harming LGBTQ people as much as possible.

Republicans are rolling back LGBTQ protections at every level.

Especially for trans youths.

That’s not hyperbole.

And it’s not just happening with Republicans in Washington.

It’s happening on school boards, municipal governments, county councils.

These aren’t isolated incidents.

They’re coordinated.

Republicans are moving in sync, with direct marching orders — from small towns to Washington.

And LGBTQ people are paying the price.

Look around.

Book bans.

Drag bans.

Theater performances canceled.

Health care access targeted.

Businesses harassed.

Education cut.

Historical records erased.

Pride flags debated like they’re threats.

This isn’t about “just politics.”

This is about people’s lives.

And too many people are shrugging it off like it’s just more noise.

Supporting a party that’s actively working to harm LGBTQ people — at any level — isn’t neutral.

It’s not “just about the economy” or “just local.”

Republicans are connected to a broader playbook.

One that’s strategic, aggressive and deeply harmful.

The people doing harm are loud.

The rest of us need to stop being so quiet.

Not saying anything? That helps them.

Voting for the “nice” Republican on your school board? That helps them.

Supporting their businesses (Yes, even Chick-fil-A)? That helps them.

Acting like these issues are too complicated to speak on? That helps them, too.

What’s happening now is serious.

And if it doesn’t make you uncomfortable, it should.

5 ways allies can support LGBTQ family, friends

Supporting LGBTQ people is essential for fostering inclusivity, equality and understanding — and it’s just the right thing to do.

Here are five impactful ways allies can step up and make a difference:

1. Educate yourself

As an ally, it’s crucial to invest time in understanding LGBTQ history, issues, and terminology. This includes learning about different identities and experiences within the community. By becoming knowledgeable, you can challenge misconceptions, provide accurate information, and show genuine respect for LGBTQ individuals’ experiences. This education not only helps you become a better ally but also fosters a more inclusive environment where everyone feels valued and understood.

2. Speak out against discrimination

Discrimination can take many forms, from subtle comments to overt actions. Allies should actively confront and condemn homophobic, transphobic, and discriminatory remarks or behaviors. This involves challenging offensive jokes, biased comments, or unfair treatment in various settings. By speaking out, you help create a culture of accountability and support, making it clear that discrimination is unacceptable. Your voice can be powerful in driving change and fostering respect.

3. Support LGBTQ rights

Advocacy plays a crucial role in advancing LGBTQ rights. Allies can participate by voting for inclusive policies, supporting legislative efforts, and joining campaigns that promote equality. Additionally, supporting LGBTQ organizations through donations or volunteer work helps sustain crucial services and initiatives aimed at improving the community’s well-being. By standing up for LGBTQ rights, you help create a society where everyone is treated equally under the law.

4. Create inclusive spaces

Making every environment inclusive and welcoming for LGBTQ people is essential. This involves implementing and promoting policies that ensure safety and respect, using inclusive language, and celebrating LGBTQ identities. Whether in workplaces, schools, or social settings, inclusive practices help LGBTQ individuals feel seen, valued, and safe. As an ally, your efforts to create inclusive spaces can significantly impact the lives of those around you.

5. Listen and offer support

Being an active, empathetic listener is one of the most important ways to support LGBTQ individuals. Offer a non-judgmental space for them to share their experiences and feelings. Providing emotional support, affirming their identities, and respecting their confidentiality fosters trust and demonstrates genuine allyship. By simply listening and offering your support, you contribute to their sense of acceptance and belonging.