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31 Things in December: When did you find out ‘The Truth’?

This is the third blog post in a month-long initiative called “31 Things in December.” Check out the list and start blogging!

Yes, Bobby, there is a Santa Claus.

I have to differ with the topic of this post.

The truth is, Santa Claus exists. He exists in each of us — in the love and joy we bring to others this month and throughout the year.

Children know Santa as the jolly, red-suited man bearing gifts. We see him at malls, but never do we find him in our home on Christmas Eve, even though we know he was there. Whether it’s a new doll, video game, a Red Ryder BB gun or gift cards, Santa delights us all, even for one day a year.

As the years pass and gifts under the tree no longer come from a sleigh with eight tiny reindeer, many seem to stop believing. I’ve never understood why people stop believing.

Gifts from Santa only get better as we grow. From toys we lose interest in weeks after they’ve been unwrapped to friendships and blessings at unexpected times of our life.

This post was going to follow a different path, but in the midst of writing it, my good friend Jim informed me of a post by another good friend to me and to many, many people — Ginny Montanez.

Ginny is a Santa. Yes, I realize she’s not 400 years old with a beard that’s three-feet long, and I’ve never heard a jolly “Ho! Ho! Ho!” out of her, but look at all of the good she’s done for so many others.

There’s Jamie and Ali and the help Ginny brought to the orphans in Haiti earlier this year. There’s Christmas Crazy with her and BurghBaby. There’s all of the charities she’s blogged about supporting.

And then there’s Make Room for Kids. Ginny spearheaded an effort to provide in-game entertainment (video games, movies, computers, etc) to patients at Children’s Hospital. Her readers and friends helped her raise something like $15,000 last year around this time.

Then there’s a simple e-mail I sent Ginny a few days ago. I asked her and a few other friends to help promote a friend’s art show. The photographer at the newspaper I work at opens her first art show Friday. Proceeds from the show benefit Ginny’s Make Room for Kids initiative.

I thought Ginny would tweet it a few times, Facebook it and mention it in a blog. And I would have been excited just for that!

But Ginny surprised me when she said she was coming to the show opening. Ginny lives about a billion miles (in Pittsburgh terms) from where the show is. On top of that, her car was damaged in a crash last week or so on the Parkway East.

… and then there was the fire. Las Velas, the Mexican restaurant at Market Square, caught fire Wednesday morning, closing the place and forcing some very hard working staff members out of work right before the holidays.

The LAST thing on Ginny’s mind should be an art show a billion Pittsburgh miles from her home in another county and another area code. Instead, she assured me she was coming.

In her post about the fire, she mentions Kristina’s event and encourages others to attend.

It’s people like Ginny that allow me to keep believing in Santa Claus.

31 Things in December: Why is Santa such a jerk in “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer?”

This is another topic from the “31 Things in December.” Check out the list and join the blogging fun!

Tuesday night was the annual viewing of “Rudolph” on CBS.

It’s a classic, for sure, but there’s always been one part of the cartoon that’s bothered me — why is Santa such a jerk?

Kids grow to know Santa as a jolly, happy man who sees good in all. Santa’s smile has a twinkle as bright as a snowflake, yet the “Rudolph” creators established Santa to be a mean-spirited bigot.

He yells at his wife, he is never pleased with the elves and he didn’t care for Rudolph initially.

It seems, though, fans are unaffected by his grouchiness and stark difference from the Santa we’ve all grown to know. Heck, even his hair color differs from the stereotypical image of Santa.

His attitude doesn’t affect my love of the show. “Rudolph” is a classic and tells a story much deeper than Santa’s personality.

I’ve always believed the program showed how those who aren’t considered “normal” can overcome obstacles and be leaders. It’s a story every child should hear and practice. Children are taught to respect one another, but we all know there are kids who are teased and those who do the teasing.

Rudolph overcame those obstacles and the bullying and was able to see his importance. Even Santa saw how important Rudolph was to his mission.

The timeless classic seems to never lose its meaning.

31 Things in December: Do you collect anything Christmasy?

As part of an effort to use my blog more, I’ve decided to write at least a post a day regarding the holiday season. With the help of my friend Stephanie, who gave me 31 ideas to blog about, I hope to complete this event and share some of my love of the season with you.

I’ve always had a love of train displays and miniature buildings. Add to that my love of Christmas and a quant New England village at winter comes alive underneath the family tree.

Since the early- to mid-90s, I’ve collected Lemax — and to a lesser extent some other brands — miniature buildings, scenery and figures.

But a village beneath our tree has been a tradition for as long as I can recall. In the early ’90s, I used to set up a train and rural/farm village. Many of the buildings dated back to when my uncle was young. Most were made of plastic. I even added some pieces from my Micro Machines collection.

There was a diner, a school, a store and a barn that served as a place for the townsfolk to celebrate Christmas.

Then, we began buying some pieces from Kmart, which sells the Lemax line. Our collection began even earlier than that with three houses from a Christmas Around the World collection.

The plastic farm village and train was retired and replaced with more Lemax pieces.

To date, I probably own between 20 and 30 buildings — I’ve purchased or been given at least one per year since the mid-90s.

The village tends to take on similar themes each year — the church usually serves as the focal point, shoppers leave Foley’s Pharmacy with last-minute goods, children build snowmen and others gather ’round the town tree singing carols.

In 2009, I added the Daily Gazette (imagine that), the town newspaper.

This year, a Lands’ End store shares the focal point with the church, sitting next to each other where the two main streets in town meet.

When I completed the village, my mom said there was an area I neglected placing figurines.

“I know,” I said. “I bought a parade.”

“You did what?” she said.

“I bought a parade,” I said.

As soon as my Sears/Kmart delivery arrives, I’ll have a parade, complete with a band and floats to add to Main Street. The parade will be the focal point of the village this year, which is why Lands’ End shares the spotlight.

Since I don’t have a department store (I’ve been searching high and low for a department store piece!), I’ve decided the Lands’ End Christmas Parade will march through town, right past the post office and continuing past the parade’s sponsor and down beyond Patty’s Pub.

There’s something about the quant village that attracts me to it. I am envious of those figurines who live there. The village represents a time when townspeople spent the day in a downtown business district, shopping, eating, enjoying the sights and sounds, then returning home with their packages.

My mom often tells me stories of shopping in Downtown Pittsburgh, when Kaufmann’s, not Costco, was king. Though Pittsburgh’s downtown center differs greatly from the village my town represents, it’s that small-town, neighborly feel of being waited on by shop owners or folks who appreciate the services and items they’re selling that mean so much.

Today, Christmas shopping for many means fighting angry mobs of shoppers all trying to catch the same mass-produced items, or being alone in a bedroom punching in credit card numbers on a website.

So what’s the name of my village? Well, it changes yearly as do many of the buildings displayed. Last year, I referred to it as “Christmastowne.” I wasn’t fond of that, and I’m really focused on creating a name and a story for the village. Lemax offers names of villages the company has themed various miniature buildings around, but I’d prefer a unique name and story.

My collection includes a ski lift, two lighthouses (it is, after all, a New England-based village), a forge, greenhouse, hotel, several residences and much more.

One piece I’ve yet to add is radio station KJOY, playing all of your favorite Christmas music. I haven’t purchased it yet, but know it’s next.

And I don’t just collect any village piece. Lemax is my No. 1 spot for village pieces, followed by the St. Nicholas Square village sold at Kohl’s. My least favorite mass-produced village is the one sold at Walmart. The pieces are noticeably different from Lemax, whereas, the village from Kohl’s blends perfectly.

Even though Lemax is my favorite, I still find that I’m extremely picky when it comes to what I’d like to add. For instance, Lemax offers an insurance company building. While it looks OK, it doesn’t fit my dream town.

One day, I’d love to add a train display and have an area to permanently display my village. Some day.

Until then, I’ll enjoy my small town for the five or six weeks each year it comes to life.

31 Things for December…

I asked my friend Stephanie if she knew of any writing prompts with a Christmas theme. So she created 31 things for December!

I’ve listed them below. This is my favorite time of the year, and I would really like to share my love of the holiday season with the few of you who read this. So please feel free to read my blog through December, and use this list.

My close personal friend Bobby asked me about writing prompts for the holidays. I told him I’d come up with some. Feel free to use these to do blog entries, status updates, whatever. They’ll tend toward being Christmas-centric. If your traditions follow another path, improvise 🙂

1. Favorite scene in a holiday movie

2. Favorite seasonal main dish

3. Are you a “Santa hat” kind of person?

4. When did you find out The Truth?

5. What was your favorite Santa-related tradition as a kid?

6. What makes you Grinchy?

7. Favorite seasonal story or book

8. Favorite seasonal dessert or treat (other than cookies)

9. Have you ever taken a Christmas trip?

10. Tradition you did/would put an end to

11. Ethnic traditions, celebrations, foods, etc.

12. Favorite Christmas cookies

13. Do you collect anything Christmasy (ornaments, Santas, snowmen, etc.)?

14. What’s your stance on SNOW? Love it? Hate it? It’s fine between Thanksgiving and Christmas? Never seen it?

15. Strangest holiday get-together

16. Who’s the weird relative who comes around for the holidays? (If you don’t have answer, it may be you)

17. What’s your shopping list like? What’s your shopping approach?

18. Favorite year-end donations/charities

19. What’s the tangible gift you’d love to get?

20. Who would you like to celebrate New Year’s Eve with?

21. Favorite Christmas decoration?

22. Tree trimming approach?

23. Weirdest gift? Best gift?

24. If you could give someone the gift of an experience, what would it be and who would get it?

25. What’s the holiday TV special you most look forward to seeing?

26. Boxing day: what’s your tradition, if any?

27. Why is Santa such a jerk in “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer?”

28.Something you associate with Christmas that other people may not

29. Sum up 2010 in five words or less.

30. Lamest New Year’s Eve? Best New Year’s Eve?

31. Create a motto for 2011.

 

More to holiday season than December

I realize Thanksgiving is in less than a week, but that doesn’t mean my Christmas spirit has to wait until the last slice of turkey is devoured.

Every year around this time, folks try to squash my Christmas spirit:

“It’s too early to put up the tree.”

“Can’t we enjoy Thanksgiving first?”

“The thought of Christmas makes me stressful.”

“Bah humbug.”

After they’ve completed their Christmas rant, I stare them in the face and say, “You Grinch!”

For many, the mention of Christmas brings visions of crowded malls and stressful holiday meals.

But for me, the holiday season means making memories with family and friends, enjoying unique holiday-themed events, reminiscing about the year that was and looking forward to the year ahead.

Rather than enjoy the holiday season, though, it seems many people get lost in the abundance of Black Friday fliers and Christmas commercials that take away from the holiday season.

The sight of twinkling lights and animated figures singing holiday songs throughout the store seem to sicken some.

Not me.

I can’t imagine squeezing Christmas into a few days of celebration.

All of the work putting up the trees, decorations, outdoor displays and all of the time spent purchasing that special gift and then wrapping it shouldn’t be something we hold off with until the last minute.

The holidays are a special time of year that are meant to be drawn out and enjoyed, not rushed through like a burden.

Christmas isn’t about buying gifts and creating perfect meals.

It’s the hustle and bustle of the season that forces some to act like a Grinch.

But, as we know, even the Grinch thought of something he hadn’t before.

“‘Maybe Christmas’ he thought, ‘doesn’t come from a store. Maybe Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more!'”